It was a rough three years. Anybody who has been through the same will know what it’s like being duped out of everything by a covert narcissist. A situation has now arisen where I feel I have found someone I can trust enough to pursue. I have known her many years, having met her through my ex during an early date. I don’t think I can ever trust anybody I haven’t known for a long while now; fallout from the narcissist damage. So this lady is perfect having experienced the same. I hope this works. She will be safer in my arms
For those of you who are going through narcissistic discard and all of its by-products (flying monkey abuse, court battles, etc), you may be interested in reading my memoirs. It has now been published and is available directly from me. You will see my journal entries from the week before we met, up to the end of the court case. All from verifiable sources. It also contains a section with help hints to aid your plight. Get in touch for a signed copy. Jam x
Healing from narcissistic abuse can take a very long time. There are certain situations where forgiveness is not the answer in helping you move on. I have had years to study this, and like a bereavement, this crap can hurt forever. Only time, and more positive life experiences to water down the negative will even remotely ‘ease’ the damage done. Dr Ramani explains this perfectly.
“Your authenticity triggers their insecurity.” ~ R.Z.
Yesterday, Theresa Godly’s short film highlighting parental alienation was shown to an audience of supporters who had helped make it happen. Almost 140 people, from crew to financial pledgers, from all over the world attended to watch the 15 minute flick based on her own real life experiences. How did it bear up? In short, incredibly well. With everybody applauding as soon as the credits started rolling, as each of them resonated with elements of the story as it played out.
On a personal level, I could fully relate to the film. I have been at both ends of the scope of parental alienation. It is a psychological abuse of powerplay by one parent in order to gain control and favour of a child over the other parent. I clearly remembered my mother saying bad things about my father when I was young. These things I would discover as falsehood as I reached adolescence. Not to mention having been moved 200 miles away from him at the age of four.
The sweeping score added another level to the already emotionally impacting story and it was very clever to convey all the emotions that come with PA into a 15 minute film along with outstanding raw performances. Shock, disbelief, pain, it was all channelled through the screen into the audiences minds.
#ParentalAlienation is an abuse, yet treated in family courts as a civil matter. What is civil about somebody reprogramming your mind to sever a healthy bond with a parent and their extended family? Countless people take their own lives every year due to this horrendous coercive control and it is civil?
Bullshit! Abuse is abuse, yet the courts see it as exempt because it isn’t a physical abuse. Every years, thousands lose all of their money in trying to combat the alienating parent’s actions. Some cannot get any legal aid at all.
It is with this film and causes like Parental Alienation Awareness that we wish to educate and spread awareness of this dreadful social issue. Theresa is currently raising money via crowdfunder in order to get The Stranger I Love into film festivals everywhere. If you can help, please pledge here https://www.crowdfunder.co.uk/p/tsil-festivals-marketing
Hi fellow pressers. This is a heads up for all those enduring or otherwise concerned with the debilitating social issue that is Parental Alienation. Whilst my own journey is repairing, my good friend Theresa Godly is still enduring those void-filled times into a fifth year. An experienced actress, Teri has also produced a short film to help raise parental alienation awareness and is currently holding a finishing fund on Crowdfunder to help with post production costs. I’m calling out to any backers, philanthropists or even people with a spare couple of quid who may help Teri reach her goal. Please click this link to pledge your support https://www.crowdfunder.co.uk/p/tsil-finishingfund
One of my biggest gripes in the world is child abuse. None moreso than #ParentalAlienation which I recently became an avid fundraiser for. My actor friend Theresa Godly, and director friend Martin Gooch, are making a film together highlighting the horrific effects of this sort of abuse, which shockingly goes unnoticed in the legal field all too much. However, this is a crowdfunder project and there are three quarters funded. There is still 2700 left to raise. If you can help in the form of a pledge, or simply sharing the hell out of it, they would be most grateful, and check out those awesome rewards! Click or visit https://www.crowdfunder.co.uk/p/tsil?utm_source=crowdfunder
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